WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

♦ The Winner is always part of the answer;

The Loser is always part of the problem.

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♦ The Winner always has a program;

The Loser always has an excuse.

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♦ The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";

The Loser says, "That is not my job."

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♦ The Winner sees an answer for every problem;

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

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♦ The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";

The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

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♦ When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";

When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

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♦ A Winner makes commitments;

A Loser makes promises.

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♦ Winners have dreams;

Losers have schemes.

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♦ Winners say, "I must do something";

Losers say, "Something must be done."

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♦ Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

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♦ Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

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♦ Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

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♦ Winners believe in win-win;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

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♦ Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

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♦ Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.

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♦ Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

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♦ Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

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♦ Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

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♦ Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

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♦ Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

THIS IS LIFE

When there is no friend,
When life is on the dead end,
When world is not a paradise,
When your confidence dies,

Tell Yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE !!!

When things don't go right,
When there is no ray of light,
And its too hard to survive,

Tell Yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE !!!

When there is competition to face,
When you are lagging behind in the race,
When you've lost faith in God,
When you're betrayed by a fraud,

Tell Yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE !!!

When others don't respect you,
When you're not amongst the admirable few,
When for a question, you can't find a solution,
when all you're sure about, is confusion,

Tell Yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE !!!

When your destination is miles apart,
When you don't know where to start,
When all you see around is pain,
When your hardword is in vain,

Tell Yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE !!!

Eventhough all this happens
just have faith in self and face the life
with smile,
things will surely change one day
because as said "THIS IS LIFE ...."

True Friendship

Friendship is not important with whom you have it.
Friendship is. how deep you have it,

Friendship is not how much you know..
Friendship is. how much you care,

Friendship is not how much you make happy.
Friendship is. how much you share sorrows,

Friendship is not how many times you reach your hand.
Friendship is. how many times you touch the heart,

Friendship is not how precious thing you give.
Friendship is. how much sensitive things you offer,

Friendship is not an achievement.
Friendship is.one beyond your destination,

Friendship is not just sharing the joy.
Friendship is. love in sharing the tears,

Long live our Friendship...
Ever ending one. To YOU

Best Friend and Just Friend

A Just Friend says..hi,..hello, ..bye,... and walks away...
A Best friend always stop by your side & asks how r u doing ??

A Just Friend has never seen you cry.
A Best friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A Just Friend thinks the friendship is over, when you have an argument.
A Best friend knows that it's not a friendship, until after you've had a fight.

A Just Friend hates it when you call, after he has gone to bed.
A Best friend asks you.... why you took so long to call.

A Just Friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A Best friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A Just Friend jealous about your romantic history.
A Best friend wonders of your love story.....

A Just Friend expects you to be always there for any help.
A Best friend is always there, wherever you require any help.

A Just Friend doesn't have time in his/her busy schedule,
A Best friend always have time for you in his/her busy schedules... .

A Just Friend phones you whenever he/she has some work,
A Best friend calls you often just to hear your voice.....

A Just Friend doesn't have anything to talk to you on phone,
A Best friend doesn't know...what all to finish...